Wife's role in discouraging husband's corrupt activities
I am reproducing below a message recieved from one of the lady IAS Officers
I had met Jayshree when they were just married and found her to be a simple housewife… Hats off to her for standing by her husband.I say that because (Pl dont get me wrong Feminists pl) most men go the wrong way partly because of the pressure of the wife's to own more sarees latest jewellery and competion amongst wifes to be one up on others and also to PROVE their husbands love them more than others
I have also seen cases of UPRIGHT officers suffering in their personal lives as their wife's found them "INCOMPETENT and INEFFICIENT" when compared to the other male collegues who showered their wife's abundantly with gifts.Some wifes have even divorced their honest husbands saying who wants to live with such SAINTS.Even the friends and relatives of honest IAS/IPS officers dub them as mad and not worldly wise and write them off not wanting to asociate with such BEKAAR IAS/IPS relative.
So, here I salute Jayshree while my admiration for MN is no less.Fighting a system which is supposed to be for the peoople but not working for it is a terible expeience and MN always stood up for his principles. But my congratulations to Jayshree for standing up/ by her husband is an eye opener for all wifes and future IAS/IPS aspirant wifes.If we had more Jayshrees the system would have been better.If the wifes stands up against corruption and do not feed a husband who gets illgotten money home definitely it will have its own impact on the man.I think we should not only support MN Vijaykumar but highlight the role of his wife Jayshree who has supported him in his idealism and also followed a similar lifestyle which needs to be emulated by wifes of bureaucrats.
My blessing and good wishes to both of you and alll those who supported them.
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I am Jayashree J.N, married to an IAS officer M.N.Vijayakumar of Karnataka Cadre who has served in Karnataka for the last 25 years.Soon after marriage, . During the last 23 years we have gone to whichever place he was posted without seeking any change once the transfer order was issued. In fact, even the children’s education was also affected several times and in one particular year, our children joined three different schools in three different districts of the State. From day one of the marriage till today, I have been silently supporting in his fight against corruption and I will continue to do so in the future also. However, recently, as his fight against corruption has resulted in harassment and threats, I thought it is high time I also independently, actively take up the issues he has raised by mobilizing like-minded persons throughout the country. I do not want to make the mistakes others have made under similar circumstances by keeping quiet and raising voice only after something bad happens. As I do not want to any harm done and then later seek justice, I have decided to join in his fight through the creation of this website to get support from like-minded people.**
I want to share my experiences and my own plan to fight corruption so that any like minded person can also join in my fight, irrespective of wherever they may be in the country.I also want to assist persons who have knowledge of corrupt practices but are afraid to take up the issues further for various reasons.
All that is necessary for the triumph of evil is for a few good men to do nothing
Comments
Haats Off to you Madam..I will spread the news on my part to support you.
All the best ..
Sam from Coimbatore…
I wish I could write a few encouraging words, since you are fighting against this corrupt system. Few people have dared to raise their voices. It's good to see that people like you too are doing so. But the fact is that this system is a decadent sytem. It has rottened to it's core. I dont believe that it can be rectified or repaired. The only remedy is to destroy and demolish the whole setup and setup a new one. The whole system is run by hardened criminals. Our Judiciary, legislature and executive is heavily infested by the criminals. The police and now even the army is corrupt. Madam, if you really wish to see any results motivate people to rise and come out from there slumber and demolish this farce democracy. AND if you can not do so, then quit this garbage country.
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Its very impressive that you are voicing your grievance through the medium of the internet. Your word has spread since I got to know about you and your fight against the corruption while in New York. Its people like you that make the difference in situations that others feel obliged to suffer in. I wish you and your husband the very best.
-Samit, New York.
There are many people who suffer from the corrupt, but do not do so. More strength to you. I am a silent supporter to you. If the occasion arises count on it that we will be there to support you publicly. I will try to spread your cause.
I think Vijayakumar is lucky man.No matters what ever happens. Please stand by your husband and fight the biggest disease corruption and get it rid from india.
Even the journey of 1000 miles begin from single step.We will support your cause andd definately spread word of your brave fighting.All the very best to you and your family
Dilip, New jersey.
Very good news that fight against corruption.
You are the real Indians,We are there for you,Go Ahead.
Krishna,Hyderabad.
It's inspirational to see such firm belief in the virtues of life. I promise to do one good deed today….watever it may be.
(Not for me, but for others)
…And will continue to do so in all my capacity.
Thanks for being such a strength to your husband and to other indians.
Dear Madam,
My heartfelt appreciations and best wishes to you for your fight against corruption .This evil menace has to be curbed and weeded off it roots that is very deeply rooted in our Indian bureaucracy. Ironically, in India we need to shell out money just to make public servants do their duty. Ethics and Values have to be imbibed in children mind right from their childhood. Parents, teachers can help make this happen. We lack civic sense too. No one minds crossing a stop line when one encounters red signal, blocking free flow of traffic. People view such violations as petty ones and give scant regard. A radical change has to bought in our society. contact at moc.liamg|neziticnaidniduorp#moc.liamg|neziticnaidniduorp
Madam Jayashree, when you took that marriage vows to be with your hubby “In sunshine or in rain” , You really meant it. Felt extremely pleased to find people who can STAND and FIGHT for what they think is right. Whenever I read your webpage I feel humbled. It inspires to replicate it in my own environment, maybe in a small measure. I recall the words of swami Vivekananda where he said that a handful of lions are enough can shake the world. When one Bhagat Singh was hanged it spawned hundreds of Bhagat Singhs to take cudgels against British. I feel that the more these “ Axis of Evil” tries to subdue the good , the more people will join your cause . But I just pray to God to give “Strenght” to you and your family. For we unguided youths(who have false heroes like filmi personalities) really need beacon like you to lead us.
Don’t ever think that what one person can do , don’t ever think that this is leading to nowhere – for the STONE WALL looks (falsely) unbreakable until that last blow cracks it open.
Take care and God Bless,
Rohit , Bangalore